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The saddest part of your loneliness is that sometimes you have the feeling that your partner feels the same way that you do. If this describes you, please try to find a couples therapist, and read about various ways to work on your relationship.
Many couples who feel even this level of disconnection find their way back to each other with hard work in counseling, even if only one person goes. Learn about what each of you brings to the table from your childhood.
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By Samantha Rodman, PhD. Loneliness within a Marriage.
Retrieved on February 25,from https: By a member of our scientific advisory board on 8 Jul Published on Psych Central. Hot Topics Today 1.